The Four Days of Christmas-Our Tradition

Every year I kind of explain our Christmas tradition but we seem to keep adding family members so not that we are done adding this will be my final Christmas tradition explanation to be referenced for all Christmases to follow.

When I was almost 2 and my sister almost 4, my mom was 9-moths pregnant with my brother and had, what she claims, was the worst Christmas ever. She says by Christmas night she so disliked my sister and me that she swore she never would do Christmas again. Well thankfully she changed her mind but the next year she did things very differently and this tradition is where we get our tradition. The point of our Christmas tradition is to help alleviate the brattyness and grabbiness of Christmas morning and this is how it goes:

On December 20th we kick off the holiday by having our version of Christmas dinner (my mom always did the full blown turkey etc. but we just eat shrimp). That night the oldest child give the present she bought for her sisters to them and she, in return, receives her gift from her father. The next night the middle child gives to sisters and receives from dad, the next night the youngest child gives gifts to sisters and receives from dad. This brings us to the night of the 23rd when all children are given one present from Mama. On Christmas Eve they get to open Christmas Eve PJs from Nanue and gifts from the cousins. Christmas morning they get one big Santa gift and then open a present from my parents. We do Christmas with Matt's parents whenever they come in town so those presents are also appreciated for who they are from.

This worked really well this year and made Christmas so fun for me and Matt. No yelling and indiscriminately tearing into packages with no acknowledgment of who it was from. The way we did it, eat girl was thoughtful in her choice of gift for her sister and each family member remembers distinctly what they got from the others.

Now, being a bigger family there were some things I did to create more gifts without spending much money and I will share those now:

1. I bought all Mera's gifts at the Thrift Store and then let each girl pick from that lot what they wanted to get her. I got some great stuff and Mera, nor the big girls, seemed to know the difference.

2. I bought A BUNCH of used books, both online and from the Thrift Store ($.50 each), and let the girls open some books each night. I love books so this was really fun for me.

3. I saved up my Disover Cashback Bonus (not to worry, I pay my full CC balance every month) and bought most of my gifts from Amazon, paying with my Cashback Bonus so my bills through Nov. and Dec. never really jumped.

4. I started in Nov. buying stocking stuffers and bought a few each week at the grocery store so they kind of went along with my grocery budget.

5. We did baked good and homemade gifts for all the girls teachers (total of about 125 cookies I baked) and went to the dollar store for packaging.

Now all my secrets are out. It may not seem like much but it helped me enjoy Christmas a little more, still keeping the giving spirit, and not breaking the bank.